Being this young made me realize that I have a long time to find my dream girl. Being in the pickup business you meet all kinds of girls, but very few will come close to what your looking for. When I go out and do pickup, I look for certain traits that girls have. During this process I do something called "qualifying". Basically I find out if we could function together as a couple. I have an odd/dry sense of humor, but I also laugh at the dumbest randomest things. If I can see that she also does that then that's a good thing, I unintenionally laugh at stuff that alot of people don't find funny. If I could get her to laugh at one of my lame(yet funny) jokes then I just used a form of qualification. Most people would think "well aren't you just trying to get to know her." Yes! But I make a deeper connection with certain things I do/say that would have the biggest impact on my desicion if I should continue talking to her or if shes a waste of time.
If your into sports then a good example would be:
You: I'm a real big fan of the Seahawks, are you into sports?
Her: No, I actually don't like sports
See that could be a HUGE bummer for you because on sunday afternoons she'll feel like its an obligation to watch football with you. If sports is a real big part of your life then you wouldnt want a girl that doesn't enjoy watching it.
I'm getting better pickup, I can see the growth. I notice my confidence is defintely higher. Talking to random people is just a walk in the park. I've made a quote that I use for pickup, "Some days I have good days, some days I have great days, there's never a bad day in pickup."
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