The revamp

             It's been about 3 months since I've last posted. I'm currently on a business trip and will be here for just a couple more months. I'm going to have a lot of free time while I'm here, too much free time.  So I had time to look over my old posts and analyze each one. I've noticed that my structure is very unorganized. So in response to that, I'm creating the ultimate guide for pickup.
            The guide is going to consist of all the ideologies, theories and methods that I've personally found useful. It'll be one giant boiling pot of all the top pickup artists' ideas. I'll give my own personal opinion on the theories at the end of each chapter.
            A lot of the ideas/ methods I've posted on this blog are field tested and have an "X %" success rate. That isn't the issue though, it's the fact that if I need a refresher, I have to go on a scavenger hunt to find a certain post. I'll make my guide available for free on this blog, if I figure out how to make it downloadable. I'm not exactly sure when I'll have it completely finished. My rough estimate would have to be about 2-3 weeks from now.

          

Learning the difference between a black and white situation...

    When I say a black and white situation, I don't mean the races, I mean an actual situation where something is right and something is wrong. I learned through a lot of days and nights of pick up that everything is GRAY in pick up. Why am I saying this? Because there are so many variables, situations, atmospheres, environments, etc... You can go in with the biggest plan but the chances of that scenario actually go planned as rehearsed is one to none. Every guy's style is different, some are naturals which are the lucky few that probably never studied an ounce of pick up their whole life, then those are the guys that studied pickup and applied it, then those are the ones that studied pickup but never actually go out and attempt it.
    My true journey started out when I was a semi-natural, believe me I was no James bond. I just talked to women with because of the simple fact I was the only brother of five sisters. Once I found out that this shit is fucking awesome, I then stumbled upon a few videos which sparked my interest in pickup. That forever changed my perspective.
   The whole point of this post really is just to share my thoughts. Another thought I've been having is what my next job occupation in life is going to be, the one currently im in isn't great and I don't love what I do. I want something a little more unstructured, something where i'm the boss, where I can teach people but also learn about myself and life in general. Im just rambling on and on... But I thought about creating a business about pickup/dating coach. I am in no way ready to assume the position as a dating coach, but as for a pickup coach, I do believe im ready for that position.
   The reason I don't believe I could be a dating coach yet is because I've never really been that great at dating, i'm great at the initial approach, taking her on a couple dates, getting laid, then calling it quits on her. I never really go above and beyond. I've also learned about my self is that I can really get caught up in the moment if the "pussy was good." I've said and done some things that would strongly relate to Ted Mosby from "How I met your mother".

a little change of heart

All my life, I have been a pretentious, under appreciative, spoiled, inconsiderate brat. A recent event had me thinking, thinking extremely hard, I do believe I handled the situation in the most appropriate way. It really opened my eyes to the wonders of actually helping others and being less of a self centered douche. What I've been telling my self lately is :"just be nice, be niceeee, no matter how irritating the situation is, just remain calm, money is just money, family and friends are more important, etc. etc." Lately its been taking a positive impact on my life, not so much on my wallet, but that isn't the most important thing in the world compared to being a great person potentially a great leader. I've been doing a lot of thinking about my future, and I just wanna blow everyone out of the water with all the great things I've been doing. I wanna get my name recognized to create a better for my self and my family. Getting promoted is pretty tough in my position, but not only do I want to get promoted, I want to become a better overall person and be stamped a leader. Better days are definitely on the way....

couldn't have said it any better

"Strength is the product of struggle, you must do what others don't to achieve what others won't."
                                                                             -Henry Rollins

Recap of the weekend...

I thought long and hard about not drinking during the weekend, but by the end of the week, I was so pooped and needed to really loosen up. It was a long rough week, and I felt like I needed to escape reality by drinking. I wasn't piss drunk, I knew when to cut myself off, which I think is a great aspect about myself. Anyways lets begin with Friday.
   So at about 8 pm, I took a nap that was only suppose to last 1 hour, turns out lasting 2 hours because my alarm didn't go off. So this extremely long nap didn't refresh me what so ever. I lost all social momentum that I was building up during the day, at this point I was like, "fuck it I need a drink." Took a taxi over to a club about 15 mins away from my place. I'm not really a fan of the area this club is located in, but I didn't really have much of an option since all of my friends were there. As soon as I got in, I order a couple drinks, scouted the area, danced a bit. I already broke my rule, didn't machine gun the place. There was a good amount of women, totally disregarded that. As the night goes on, I start breaking through and began slowly began creating a steady social momentum. One of my lines for the night was, "do you know how to twerk?" I got a lot of smiles and giggles. I even attempted to perform it on some random girl hah. Me and a buddy went outside to the smoking area, he smokes, I don't. I started a random conversation with a group of beautiful women. My buddy was vibing the  short girl, so I laid my eyes off her. I began talking to the alpha girl of the group, I was fascinated by her tounge piercing. In my head, "I love bad bitches that's my fuckin problem." I was demonstrating value, strong eye contact, and just overall showing I was genuinely having a fun time.
    The girls then decided they wanted to dance, so we followed. I ended up dancing with the tongue pierced girl the whole night damn near. We were dirty dancing the whole night, grinding, whatever its called. We made out a lot, she reached up my shirt, and im retarded. EASILY, EASILYYYY, could've pulled her. I don't know what made me not do it. It couldn't have been the alcohol, I stopped drinking a couple hours before I met her. Anyways, the night grew old, ended up getting her number. Not satisfied with just her number, nor the interaction, but I can use these as reference experiences for the future.
    A couple things I noticed over the weekend that I just noticed were:
Isolation: I didn't isolate the women I talked to/made out with. Isolation is key, it creates a focus between just you and your girl
Time restraint: I did not once use a time restraint on any women. A simple time restraint that I usually used was, "hey lets talk for two minutes then I gotta get back to my friends"
Kino escalation: "My escalation was pretty bad, I had several opportunities besides the polish girl aka tongue girl. Several times.
   Overall I would rate this weekend on a scale from 1-10 a 6 for pick up, 8 for fun, 8 for pickup references.

how i feel when ever i walk into a club with my buddies...

how to get over your ex

Depending how big your game is, big or small. However long your relationship is, long or short. How deep your love was, amazing or bland. All these variables can cause you to either lengthen or shorten your period of recovery to getting over an ex. The one simple solution that'll work 95% of the time is to go out and start fucking multiple girls. Once you get up to about 12 then you'll hit the, "whose that again, her name sounds familiar." NOTHING is impossible, get over her, you can do so much better player.