I thought long and hard about not drinking during the weekend, but by the end of the week, I was so pooped and needed to really loosen up. It was a long rough week, and I felt like I needed to escape reality by drinking. I wasn't piss drunk, I knew when to cut myself off, which I think is a great aspect about myself. Anyways lets begin with Friday.
So at about 8 pm, I took a nap that was only suppose to last 1 hour, turns out lasting 2 hours because my alarm didn't go off. So this extremely long nap didn't refresh me what so ever. I lost all social momentum that I was building up during the day, at this point I was like, "fuck it I need a drink." Took a taxi over to a club about 15 mins away from my place. I'm not really a fan of the area this club is located in, but I didn't really have much of an option since all of my friends were there. As soon as I got in, I order a couple drinks, scouted the area, danced a bit. I already broke my rule, didn't machine gun the place. There was a good amount of women, totally disregarded that. As the night goes on, I start breaking through and began slowly began creating a steady social momentum. One of my lines for the night was, "do you know how to twerk?" I got a lot of smiles and giggles. I even attempted to perform it on some random girl hah. Me and a buddy went outside to the smoking area, he smokes, I don't. I started a random conversation with a group of beautiful women. My buddy was vibing the short girl, so I laid my eyes off her. I began talking to the alpha girl of the group, I was fascinated by her tounge piercing. In my head, "I love bad bitches that's my fuckin problem." I was demonstrating value, strong eye contact, and just overall showing I was genuinely having a fun time.
The girls then decided they wanted to dance, so we followed. I ended up dancing with the tongue pierced girl the whole night damn near. We were dirty dancing the whole night, grinding, whatever its called. We made out a lot, she reached up my shirt, and im retarded. EASILY, EASILYYYY, could've pulled her. I don't know what made me not do it. It couldn't have been the alcohol, I stopped drinking a couple hours before I met her. Anyways, the night grew old, ended up getting her number. Not satisfied with just her number, nor the interaction, but I can use these as reference experiences for the future.
A couple things I noticed over the weekend that I just noticed were:
Isolation: I didn't isolate the women I talked to/made out with. Isolation is key, it creates a focus between just you and your girl
Time restraint: I did not once use a time restraint on any women. A simple time restraint that I usually used was, "hey lets talk for two minutes then I gotta get back to my friends"
Kino escalation: "My escalation was pretty bad, I had several opportunities besides the polish girl aka tongue girl. Several times.
Overall I would rate this weekend on a scale from 1-10 a 6 for pick up, 8 for fun, 8 for pickup references.
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