some time to kill

 So apparently we can bring our phones to boot camp, just can't use it all the time. Only for special occasions like good behavior.

  I'll tell you guys about my day at meps and the hotel. The hotel was nothin' special until I saw some strippers walking around which made me a happy camper. So I decided to walk around the hotel a couple times to just see what I can do. Ended up just chilling ib my room.
  So today is my shipout date for boot camp. This day has longly been awaited. It was really sad/scarey that they kept losing my paperwork. Oh well, im officially active duty. I love the sound of that!

let life finally begin...

      So, it turns out I am getting shipped out to bootcamp tomorrow. Am I scared,nervous? No, it probaly hasnt hit me yet but it probaly never will. I've been doing alot of research and I saw a guy on youtube and the way he put it is, "Its only two months of your life, you have 60-70 more years." Simple as that, i was definetly relieved to hear something so simple yet calming. He also said just don't act like an idiot and you'll get through just fine. It'll be a tough one, but i'll make it, hahahaha. I'm really looking forward to B.E.A.S.T week, were suppose to live on a little wannabe makeshift base. We then have to defend it as if it were a real one.
       I have to go to a hotel today, then wake up tomorrow at 0400, there going to come get me then take me to MEPS, they'll process me there then take me to san diego air port and fly me out to texas. Im being optimistic, but I think this'll be the best 2 months of my young life.
       Now time to pessitimistic, this year was definetly not the best summer of my life. It was worth a try to challenge myself into making it the best but I guess too much stuff was happening in my life for it to be as great as I thought it would be. Now i'm going to keep my end of the bargain and go to college. Not sure where i'll attend but im going to air force community college for sure.
       See ya guys in 2 1/2 months :)

ahhhhhhh

Havent posted since wednesday, I try to keep the no-post gap between 1-3 days, oh well.

I've been sorta-kinda stressing about work. I told my recruiter about my tattoo, then he tells me I might be disqualified from joining. So now i'm going through a little process with my flight commander, seeing if im still able to join. Still no word. I got chewed out by my recruiter's boss. It was bitter sweet because it was the first time I actually REALLY cared about, but then again he was pretty funny at chewing me out. When he answered the phone, "Hey tattoo-guy." I wanted to laugh so hard but I knew the seriousness of the situation. My recruiter took it pretty well, he also got chewed out. He just told me to take it like a man. Overall it was definetly something that should be experienced (maybe). My plan B is to join the Navy, that was actually my plan A but my dad convinced to join the air force.

     Pickup relatedness, I was inside my house for so many days (besides when I went to go workout) that when I went to the mall yesterday, I wouldnt approach a single girl. Now I know how it feels to be back at step 1. Well, all I can do now is do some approaches while I still have time.

3 second rule

You can have that horrible feeling for the first 3 seconds or 10 mins, its your call wether or not to just jump in the cold water and get it over with so that you can enjoy the rest of your time in the water.

who needs looks...

             Women are only interested in power,status and confidence. Looks are only for the attraction.

Sounds legit...

 I was browsing the simple pickup forums and stumbled upon a website that basically teaches you 'how to not give a fuck'. The way they put it is actually a comfortable mental status of not giving a fuck, you don't have to do anything stupid "to not give a fuck." One of the bullet points is....

 "Don’t ignore the problems you face. Rather, come to terms with them."

        This is something I was on board with yearssss ago. This came into play for 90% of the situations I came into, why not 100%? Well not every problem is something you CANT contemplate about, some problems are sometimes just something that consisently on your mind but you can't help it.

        Heres a couple more interesting things I read on the website.

  "Death should be your constant reminder to make the most of your situation.  Every second that passes, you are dying and you have less time to do what you have always wanted to do. Don’t have any regrets when you take your last few gasps of air. "

    "Understand fear – Most fear is irrational. Fear is the result of your brain jumping into cyclical thought patterns and then producing neurotransmitters that you perceive as fear.  But if you really analyze what’s going on, you will see your brain is automatically jumping to conclusions that may or may not happen.  And if your fear is realized, is it really as bad as you had envisioned?  Fear is your enemy.  Recognize it, and know that you can remove it immediately."

        I can't help but think that this website was made for pickup. Not only for pickup but for everyday life. But I prefer to use most of the advice it gives you for a pickup standpoint.

Being sober at a party, its the new thing try it...

           Ok so I went to another party tonight, just got back. It was basically like last week's party except no cop :(. I was completely sober, not a sip,hit,sniff of anything.... and i'm starting to like it. Im not big on the whole "above the influence" ideal, but i'm starting to see that I could actually have fun being sober. People always say that alcohol is a "crutch" to have fun. Im trying to prove those people wrong that being sober at a party isnt always bad. If you think about it this way; everyone is drunk=no one has inhibitions, so if your the only sober one then you feed off there 'no inhibitions' mentality. Basically everyone is so drunk, that your mind starts think your also drunk. Long story short, sobriety is awesome, as long as you can make it awesome.
            The girls there this week were definetly not as sexy as last week. I saw one cute girl, we kept eyeballing each other but my stupid girl friends were cockblocking the shit outta me. The kept grinding on me, while I just stood there with my hands in my pockets. Crushed my balls when they tried to grind. Other than the shitty attendance of hot girls, the overall atmosphere was pretty boring, couple people dancing here and there. DJ sucked, kept replaying the same music. I'm not going to blame that I was sober, everyone was literally boring, I dont know if they were all stoned out of their minds or whatever.

         

being wingman...

Ill admit im a terrible wingman, I prefer to do solo game. Ofcourse it all depends upon the person im winging for, if the dude has game/swagger then it makes my job easier. All the bull crap that I say to make him look good actually would sound legit if he actually had some game. I know the rules of being a wingman but I just prefer solo till I get more experience in the wingman field.
Rules for being a wingman:

• Always make your bro look good, feed the chicks bull shit/ legit shit that makes him sound like a boss
• If the bro goes in for a large set of girls then distract the rest while your bro goes for the win
• Fat/black/ugly/white/skinny ANY type of girl, you must always keep the chick's friend busy while your bro hits on the main chick
• Take turns being the wingman, you both need the experience, plus its only fair.
• Always make sure you and your wingman are on the same page, meaning your gonna bullshit and say fake names, make sure your buddy knows, other wise your gonna have to pull off the *nickname recovery.
• A good way to know which girl your mainman is going for is that he'll approach her first, instead of always asking which girl your approaching, you could use this simple tip

These are the MAIN tips for being a wingman, out of research and my faulty experience.

*Nickname recovery= If you gave yourself or if your wingman gave himself a fake name and you call out his real name and the girl askes "isn't YaddaYadda his name?" Then you calmly reply, "Oh, that's what I call him, thats his nickname. :)" It should be a non chalant correction, no need to spazz out, stay calm bro.

What motivates me....

Hah please. I dont need alot of motivation when it comes down to pickup anymore. Now its any place any time. Buuuuut if I ever need a little boost to get off my ass and go do game, just looking at a picture for a second will recharge my batteries and get me going again.

  

No Fap Challenge....

Challenge Accepted!

       If you don't know what fapping is, then im sorry but your just going to have to google the definition if you don't understand where i'm coming from by the end of this post. So basically I was told by a very reliable pickup artist that if you don't fap then your game will increase. Basically the challenge is to not fap till you get laid. The last time I got laid was about a month ago, give or take. The pickup artist made sense, basically you'll start to try more and give more effort into pickup because obviously you want to bust a nut. I only have a little less than two weeks till bootcamp so the no fap challenge will be helping me out till then.

       

Who needs zombies when you have cops to run from...

Tonight was a greatttt night, I'm not sure exactly why, a mixture of events perhaps. These types of nights NEED to be scarce, it's something you should always be able to look forward to. It shouldnt be an 'every weekend' type of deal. So let me start off my story...

     So I was scrolling through my facebook, saw that there was a party going down about 15 minutes from here. Then I do the usual, text kevin, tell him if he wants to go, 100% yes all the time. So we head to the gas station, I pay for gas. He's happy because I just hooked him up with half a tank+. So on the drive there, I was thinking to myself, "Man i've been just sitting down all day, not exactly in the party mood." When we arrived to the party location, 3 girls were walking towards us on the street. So I ask them hows the party going, they tell me it was wack because no one was there yet. So that dropped my party mood even lower than it was before.
      The party was somewhat getting ''poppin''. I was wall flowering it tonight, seriously wasn't in the party mood. I was basically checking out chicks, they were checking out me (you know when girls are checking you out because they look at you, and giggle with their friend.) Frankly I wasn't in the pickup mood either. As the night progress, my boredom reached new heights. When I decided to go outside, one of the chicks checking me out asks me for my name. She told me I was hot, it was a nice change from me hitting on girls to vice versa. I tried to start a conversation with her but she turned around. I was like wow, this chick is terrible at conversating. So I was like whatever ho.
        A couple minutes later as I was walking into the house someone grabbed my ass. It was ANOTHER girl that was checking me out. After she grabbed my ass, I turned around and smiled, asked for her name. (Didnt remeber it, didnt really care.) She asked if I wanted to dance, I rejected her. She looked bummed as she walked away.
        I was pretty much the ONLY sober person there me outta probaly about 100. You could smell the weed in the air. It was horrific, I know i used to smoke, but I despise the smell now for some reason. So as I bask in the teen ambience, someone yells out, "COPS!" MY FIRST REACTION, RUN. So I make my way to the backyard, and go thru one of the holes in the fence. I make my way over to the right, I was cornered by houses. So I calculated my chances, I saw tons of people coming my way, I was alone. So I decided to try to go through one of the backyard houses. I came by the side of the house, and an automated light came on, scared the hell out of me. So I ninja my way out of the random person's backyard. I saw that people were running through a park ahead of me.
       So I checked for any visible cops, I made a run for it. Running through ice plant, thick tall grass, and up a flight of stairs. I meet a fellow party person at the top, had a nice little conversation with him on what I just went through. So I made my way through what looked like apartments/houses. I began to become lost. Became so lost that it took about 20 minutes to find the car. Never heard so many idiots honk and scream at me, nothing I couldnt handle. Made it home, was absolutely thirsty.
   

This was a great night, there was fun,action,comedy. Basically was a movie because this all happened within about 2 hours. You may be asking, "why didn't you bang those chicks". Like what I said before, I just was feeling the party vibe. I blame hours of sitting down. Let this be a lesson to me, when its the weekend, stay active most of the day. Also being sober can actually have its perks. I'm glad I had the self control and not drink, when the party is too sketchy then i'll avoid drinking.

Nice face, booty in place but David don't chase...

Lol first off thanks jason for that line, used it a couple times now.

I have a couple girls thats are friends that I like to hang out with. But it always seems like I have to be the one to ask them if they wanna go do something. So i've decided to cut those girls off completely. They're cool and all but there are billions of girls that have an even better personality. I won't be missing any of them, they are boring now, time to move on to something fresh and fun again.(hence the title).

As in terms of pickup, i've decided that i've been in hiatus for too long. So i'm going to start up again on pickup. I've got a little more than 2 weeks before bootcamp, so i'm gonna go balls deep and do as much pickup as possible.

Its good to get a refresher on pickup. The reason I stopped for a while was because I felt like it was becoming a chore. I had a little refresher course from simple pickup. I need to have fun in the process. I also reread my very first on my blog and I wrote "But most of all have fun!" And I truly lost that edge, but I will reclaim that once sought joy.

Own the bone...

Never tried this but, hell why not... heh.

progress...

I just realized after talking with my sister that I truly have made alot of progress in the last couple of months. To make things even better I passed my driving test anddddd my recruiter gave me a rang and told me my shipout date for bootcamp is the 18th. I'm ecstatic knowing my life is starting over. This career pretty much resets my life and starts it off on a good note. Starting off on a good note, lets try to keep it there. All I gotta work on until my shipout date is my calisthenics.(had to google on how to spell calisthenics, lol). Running in the morning and then at night, then working out inbetween all that. Going minimize my computer time to two hours with stretch break between each hour. I know i'm out of shape right now, but I can guarentee that I could still outwork most of the people during basic training. Not being cocky, i'm just confident. LETS DO WORK SON!