Thursday, May 2, 2013
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
on the fence...
im currently in some what of a relationship now, she told me not to put a label on it "bf/gf". Since shes leaving to California in like 2 months. it sucks knowing shes a cool girl and all but I have to get my gaming mindset back on track. its hard to get the mindset back when shes damn near always on my mind. so im just on the fence of how im going to do things for the next 2 months. since technically im not her boyfriend then its just us talking and sex, so friends with benefits? I don't know.
I'm not one to cheat, im strongly against it but i'm not in a labeled relationship. I feel like it would be wrong to have relations with another girl, but I don't want to lose my gaming momentum/mojo. I want to keep my peak and never fall from it. I feel like if I just hang on the coat tails of this girl then i'd end up regretting it and doing something stupid, like falling for her. It would just be an empty investment, so i'm just gonna try to keep my options open and keep on opening sets. Because i'll have to find her replacement and i'd rather have the replacement up for bat than looking for one after she leaves.
it's gonna be tough though, like I said before i'm still in that relationship mentality, I gotta cut the crap and get my head out of the relationship ass. I'm not saying I don't want a relationship, i'm saying that this girl is an empty investment, only thing coming out of this which is nice, is sex, but that can only go so far.
Let the games begin....
I'm not one to cheat, im strongly against it but i'm not in a labeled relationship. I feel like it would be wrong to have relations with another girl, but I don't want to lose my gaming momentum/mojo. I want to keep my peak and never fall from it. I feel like if I just hang on the coat tails of this girl then i'd end up regretting it and doing something stupid, like falling for her. It would just be an empty investment, so i'm just gonna try to keep my options open and keep on opening sets. Because i'll have to find her replacement and i'd rather have the replacement up for bat than looking for one after she leaves.
it's gonna be tough though, like I said before i'm still in that relationship mentality, I gotta cut the crap and get my head out of the relationship ass. I'm not saying I don't want a relationship, i'm saying that this girl is an empty investment, only thing coming out of this which is nice, is sex, but that can only go so far.
Let the games begin....
Sunday, April 14, 2013
when you finally reach it, what next?
So, I've studied the art of pickup for about two years now. What I've never studied is how to keep a relationship going. I've reached the point of pickup that every PUA is looking for (at least a majority of them), the perfect girl. Ofcourse theres some circumstances that goes with this girl but, as a person and not including her past or future, I really like her. but the thing with me is that i'm terrible with relationships, and I am a little afraid that if this girl actually begins to work out that she'll be gone anyways because shes leaving for college. its a fucked up situation and this is a reason falling for someone should be the right person otherwise, well you know how it ends...
ugh shitty. anyways, summary: I like a girl, know pickup better than relationships, shitty feeling aka butterflys.
ugh shitty. anyways, summary: I like a girl, know pickup better than relationships, shitty feeling aka butterflys.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
jack of all traits...
definitely not keeping up with that type of mindset, although I think about it quite often
, I just gotta keep the motion going. As long as I can think it then I can do it. It worked before, it'll work again...
, I just gotta keep the motion going. As long as I can think it then I can do it. It worked before, it'll work again...
Sunday, April 7, 2013
a mild case of the "one-itis"
ONEitis ; is a common case of being fixated on ONE particular girl that he's consumed an exponential amount of time with yet has not been laid by her yet, it is very disastrous for a pickup artist because he then stops going out to meet other women.
Ok I have a MILD case of ONEitis with the high school girl. My game is on POINT. but i'm having trouble with my timing well because she is always busy with school or whatever. But I've just realized that me putting myself on hold (not completely, i'll say why not completely in a little). She's been getting information about me through other people and that's her way of getting to know me, which pisses me off. I want a girl to get to know me through me, not through others opinions. Sure i'm a pick up artist but i'm not following some stupid routines, or gimmicks. I'm being my self, just a lot more amplified!
Anyways I haven't been completely on hold because the other night I went out with some of my co workers to a club. And I was pretty drunk, wasn't trying to do game but I made out with a good amount of girls and only got one number. Usually when I try to really game my night would end with about 3-4 numbers, but honestly fuck the amount of numbers, I want quality over quantity anyday.
Back to ONEitis, the way I was told to cure it was to bang out a dozen girls, and if I still have the same feelings about the same girl then there truly is something there.
Something I've strayed from was the quote "Boys make excuses, men make changes." time to make some changes
Ok I have a MILD case of ONEitis with the high school girl. My game is on POINT. but i'm having trouble with my timing well because she is always busy with school or whatever. But I've just realized that me putting myself on hold (not completely, i'll say why not completely in a little). She's been getting information about me through other people and that's her way of getting to know me, which pisses me off. I want a girl to get to know me through me, not through others opinions. Sure i'm a pick up artist but i'm not following some stupid routines, or gimmicks. I'm being my self, just a lot more amplified!
Anyways I haven't been completely on hold because the other night I went out with some of my co workers to a club. And I was pretty drunk, wasn't trying to do game but I made out with a good amount of girls and only got one number. Usually when I try to really game my night would end with about 3-4 numbers, but honestly fuck the amount of numbers, I want quality over quantity anyday.
Back to ONEitis, the way I was told to cure it was to bang out a dozen girls, and if I still have the same feelings about the same girl then there truly is something there.
Something I've strayed from was the quote "Boys make excuses, men make changes." time to make some changes
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
i knew you were trouble when you walked in...
Oddly enough that song is a perfect headliner for this post.
So this story pertains to the 18 yr old I met in the club (im 19). She came in with her friends and right there and then I wanted to get her number. I ignored her the entire night and surprisingly enough I was still able to get her number before closing time.
Anyways we've been talking for about 2 weeks almost, not only texting but also calling. We talked for 2 hours the other night, which was pretty awesome because the conversation never died. Also found out that shes a freak, a good one, like the ones that every guy could dream of.
But I just recently discovered that even if she broke up with her ex, theyre like damn near bestfriends.
So heres also another dilemma, she's moving to California once shes graduates from school. Also she said she is completely cutting off dating people. But she is in fact down to fuck
Heres the thing, I just feel like it wouldn't be right because I felt like she is a girl that I could actually wait a long time for, not the one you just bone and move on. I guess if shes leaving, might as well make the best of what I can have because shes not gonna be with me, ever.
So all I can do is fight that crushing feeling of regret. hit it and quit it, it shall be.
stay sleazy.
So this story pertains to the 18 yr old I met in the club (im 19). She came in with her friends and right there and then I wanted to get her number. I ignored her the entire night and surprisingly enough I was still able to get her number before closing time.
Anyways we've been talking for about 2 weeks almost, not only texting but also calling. We talked for 2 hours the other night, which was pretty awesome because the conversation never died. Also found out that shes a freak, a good one, like the ones that every guy could dream of.
But I just recently discovered that even if she broke up with her ex, theyre like damn near bestfriends.
So heres also another dilemma, she's moving to California once shes graduates from school. Also she said she is completely cutting off dating people. But she is in fact down to fuck
Heres the thing, I just feel like it wouldn't be right because I felt like she is a girl that I could actually wait a long time for, not the one you just bone and move on. I guess if shes leaving, might as well make the best of what I can have because shes not gonna be with me, ever.
So all I can do is fight that crushing feeling of regret. hit it and quit it, it shall be.
stay sleazy.
Monday, March 25, 2013
im on to you...
I've been reading "The Game" by neil strauss.
And my eyes have been opened so far. I'm impressed by a guy named Mystery, his style is something I could definitely partake in. Then theres some other PUA's that a more decisive style with a lot more steps and honestly just confusing. I'm planning on testing out mystery's theory tonight.
Heres the condensed list of mystery method.
1) walk in to the club with a HUGE smile. See the first group with the target and approach instantly following the 3 second rule.
2)recite a memorized opener if not two or three in a row.
3)the opener should open the entire group not just the girl. When talking, ignore the target for the most part and if theres men then focus your attention on the men
4)Neg the target with one the slew negs that could be googled.
5)convey personality to the entire group with humor,jokes, magic, etc.
6)Neg the target again if need be.
7) ask everyone how everyone knows each other, and at this point you'll find out if anyone is in a relationship, if the target is taken by someone there then simple say "pleasure meeting you"
8)if shes unspoken for, tell the entire group that you've been alienating their friend for a while and ask if she can be spoken to for a couple minutes
9)isolate her and grab her by the hand and tell her your gonna show her something. If she squeezes then that's an IOI.
10) sit with her and perform runw reading, esp test or any other test that will fascinate and intrigue her
11)tell her "beauty is common but what's rare is a great energy and outlook on life. tell me what do you have inside that would me make me want know you more than just a mere face in the crowd" if she begins listing qualities = IOI
12)stop talking and if she reintiates the conversation with a question with the word 'so' then you've got all 3 IOI's
13)kiss close time. out of the blue say "would you like to kiss me?" if the setting or circumstances of the current circumstance to physical intimacy then give a time constraint by saying "I gotta go but we should continue this" then get her number and leave
And my eyes have been opened so far. I'm impressed by a guy named Mystery, his style is something I could definitely partake in. Then theres some other PUA's that a more decisive style with a lot more steps and honestly just confusing. I'm planning on testing out mystery's theory tonight.
Heres the condensed list of mystery method.
1) walk in to the club with a HUGE smile. See the first group with the target and approach instantly following the 3 second rule.
2)recite a memorized opener if not two or three in a row.
3)the opener should open the entire group not just the girl. When talking, ignore the target for the most part and if theres men then focus your attention on the men
4)Neg the target with one the slew negs that could be googled.
5)convey personality to the entire group with humor,jokes, magic, etc.
6)Neg the target again if need be.
7) ask everyone how everyone knows each other, and at this point you'll find out if anyone is in a relationship, if the target is taken by someone there then simple say "pleasure meeting you"
8)if shes unspoken for, tell the entire group that you've been alienating their friend for a while and ask if she can be spoken to for a couple minutes
9)isolate her and grab her by the hand and tell her your gonna show her something. If she squeezes then that's an IOI.
10) sit with her and perform runw reading, esp test or any other test that will fascinate and intrigue her
11)tell her "beauty is common but what's rare is a great energy and outlook on life. tell me what do you have inside that would me make me want know you more than just a mere face in the crowd" if she begins listing qualities = IOI
12)stop talking and if she reintiates the conversation with a question with the word 'so' then you've got all 3 IOI's
13)kiss close time. out of the blue say "would you like to kiss me?" if the setting or circumstances of the current circumstance to physical intimacy then give a time constraint by saying "I gotta go but we should continue this" then get her number and leave
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