"Strength is the product of struggle, you must do what others don't to achieve what others won't."
-Henry Rollins
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Monday, August 26, 2013
Recap of the weekend...
I thought long and hard about not drinking during the weekend, but by the end of the week, I was so pooped and needed to really loosen up. It was a long rough week, and I felt like I needed to escape reality by drinking. I wasn't piss drunk, I knew when to cut myself off, which I think is a great aspect about myself. Anyways lets begin with Friday.
So at about 8 pm, I took a nap that was only suppose to last 1 hour, turns out lasting 2 hours because my alarm didn't go off. So this extremely long nap didn't refresh me what so ever. I lost all social momentum that I was building up during the day, at this point I was like, "fuck it I need a drink." Took a taxi over to a club about 15 mins away from my place. I'm not really a fan of the area this club is located in, but I didn't really have much of an option since all of my friends were there. As soon as I got in, I order a couple drinks, scouted the area, danced a bit. I already broke my rule, didn't machine gun the place. There was a good amount of women, totally disregarded that. As the night goes on, I start breaking through and began slowly began creating a steady social momentum. One of my lines for the night was, "do you know how to twerk?" I got a lot of smiles and giggles. I even attempted to perform it on some random girl hah. Me and a buddy went outside to the smoking area, he smokes, I don't. I started a random conversation with a group of beautiful women. My buddy was vibing the short girl, so I laid my eyes off her. I began talking to the alpha girl of the group, I was fascinated by her tounge piercing. In my head, "I love bad bitches that's my fuckin problem." I was demonstrating value, strong eye contact, and just overall showing I was genuinely having a fun time.
The girls then decided they wanted to dance, so we followed. I ended up dancing with the tongue pierced girl the whole night damn near. We were dirty dancing the whole night, grinding, whatever its called. We made out a lot, she reached up my shirt, and im retarded. EASILY, EASILYYYY, could've pulled her. I don't know what made me not do it. It couldn't have been the alcohol, I stopped drinking a couple hours before I met her. Anyways, the night grew old, ended up getting her number. Not satisfied with just her number, nor the interaction, but I can use these as reference experiences for the future.
A couple things I noticed over the weekend that I just noticed were:
Isolation: I didn't isolate the women I talked to/made out with. Isolation is key, it creates a focus between just you and your girl
Time restraint: I did not once use a time restraint on any women. A simple time restraint that I usually used was, "hey lets talk for two minutes then I gotta get back to my friends"
Kino escalation: "My escalation was pretty bad, I had several opportunities besides the polish girl aka tongue girl. Several times.
Overall I would rate this weekend on a scale from 1-10 a 6 for pick up, 8 for fun, 8 for pickup references.
So at about 8 pm, I took a nap that was only suppose to last 1 hour, turns out lasting 2 hours because my alarm didn't go off. So this extremely long nap didn't refresh me what so ever. I lost all social momentum that I was building up during the day, at this point I was like, "fuck it I need a drink." Took a taxi over to a club about 15 mins away from my place. I'm not really a fan of the area this club is located in, but I didn't really have much of an option since all of my friends were there. As soon as I got in, I order a couple drinks, scouted the area, danced a bit. I already broke my rule, didn't machine gun the place. There was a good amount of women, totally disregarded that. As the night goes on, I start breaking through and began slowly began creating a steady social momentum. One of my lines for the night was, "do you know how to twerk?" I got a lot of smiles and giggles. I even attempted to perform it on some random girl hah. Me and a buddy went outside to the smoking area, he smokes, I don't. I started a random conversation with a group of beautiful women. My buddy was vibing the short girl, so I laid my eyes off her. I began talking to the alpha girl of the group, I was fascinated by her tounge piercing. In my head, "I love bad bitches that's my fuckin problem." I was demonstrating value, strong eye contact, and just overall showing I was genuinely having a fun time.
The girls then decided they wanted to dance, so we followed. I ended up dancing with the tongue pierced girl the whole night damn near. We were dirty dancing the whole night, grinding, whatever its called. We made out a lot, she reached up my shirt, and im retarded. EASILY, EASILYYYY, could've pulled her. I don't know what made me not do it. It couldn't have been the alcohol, I stopped drinking a couple hours before I met her. Anyways, the night grew old, ended up getting her number. Not satisfied with just her number, nor the interaction, but I can use these as reference experiences for the future.
A couple things I noticed over the weekend that I just noticed were:
Isolation: I didn't isolate the women I talked to/made out with. Isolation is key, it creates a focus between just you and your girl
Time restraint: I did not once use a time restraint on any women. A simple time restraint that I usually used was, "hey lets talk for two minutes then I gotta get back to my friends"
Kino escalation: "My escalation was pretty bad, I had several opportunities besides the polish girl aka tongue girl. Several times.
Overall I would rate this weekend on a scale from 1-10 a 6 for pick up, 8 for fun, 8 for pickup references.
Thursday, August 22, 2013
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
how to get over your ex
Depending how big your game is, big or small. However long your relationship is, long or short. How deep your love was, amazing or bland. All these variables can cause you to either lengthen or shorten your period of recovery to getting over an ex. The one simple solution that'll work 95% of the time is to go out and start fucking multiple girls. Once you get up to about 12 then you'll hit the, "whose that again, her name sounds familiar." NOTHING is impossible, get over her, you can do so much better player.
Sunday, August 18, 2013
The basics for a night out
Day game and night game are two totally different types of terrain. Day game is usually a lot long, more conversing, more time consuming, more, more more more more more. As for night game, it can be short and sweet or long as hell. In order to dictate your night, it all depends on YOU and building your social momentum. I learned a while back from a really good group of PUA's on how to set up your night for success.
-Open all: As soon as you see a girl/people/whomever in sight, open up. This is the initial start to your night, this is going to be the foundation for your night. This is going to be hard at first because maybe you've had a shit day, or your just not in a social mood. This is also called machine gunning, your opening up to every set in your way, one after another.
-Minimize time between interactions: You want to constantly keep approaching to build up your social momentum. So meeting all sorts of people will help build that.
-Don't judge yourself: Your building up that social momentum, ofcourse your gonna say weird things or get blown out. This is important because if you begin to have negative thoughts then you'll begin to get discouraged.
-Have fun: This cannot be stressed enough. Have fun in every interaction. If your having fun, then people around you will sense you having fun, then they'll feed off your fun which will build your social status.
-Keep it short and sweet early, burn it to the ground late: Just like what it says in the first part, short and sweet interaction. By burning it to the ground late, at this point you should be in your god mode and should be peaking your social momentum.
-Keep building on every interaction: This is for the same night and can be used as reference experience in later pickups.
Then once your on your roll, this is where you begin to choose which girl your taking home with you. Now this doesn't work all the time, every night varies. You could always find that girl that is awesome and will come with you just a couple hours into your night. You could end up only doing half the steps. You could already have social momentum built up and already peaking by the time you go out. You may not be having fun right away, just ease your self into it.
-Open all: As soon as you see a girl/people/whomever in sight, open up. This is the initial start to your night, this is going to be the foundation for your night. This is going to be hard at first because maybe you've had a shit day, or your just not in a social mood. This is also called machine gunning, your opening up to every set in your way, one after another.
-Minimize time between interactions: You want to constantly keep approaching to build up your social momentum. So meeting all sorts of people will help build that.
-Don't judge yourself: Your building up that social momentum, ofcourse your gonna say weird things or get blown out. This is important because if you begin to have negative thoughts then you'll begin to get discouraged.
-Have fun: This cannot be stressed enough. Have fun in every interaction. If your having fun, then people around you will sense you having fun, then they'll feed off your fun which will build your social status.
-Keep it short and sweet early, burn it to the ground late: Just like what it says in the first part, short and sweet interaction. By burning it to the ground late, at this point you should be in your god mode and should be peaking your social momentum.
-Keep building on every interaction: This is for the same night and can be used as reference experience in later pickups.
Then once your on your roll, this is where you begin to choose which girl your taking home with you. Now this doesn't work all the time, every night varies. You could always find that girl that is awesome and will come with you just a couple hours into your night. You could end up only doing half the steps. You could already have social momentum built up and already peaking by the time you go out. You may not be having fun right away, just ease your self into it.
keep on swimin'
Shit tests are what can either break you or give you more reference points on how to overcome a certain situation. A shit test is basically when a girl is testing you when you do the initial approach. During this shit test a girl is try to find out what kind of man you are, if your worthy of vagina, are you a chump, are you an average joe, etc. While this is occurring you must show how much of a boss you are. Display your dominance.
If you happen to fail the shit test, its NOT a fail, its a reference point. A reference point is something that is learned due to previous attempts. Analyze your full interaction and recall what happened and pin point what worked and what didn't work.
During this whole process, have fun with it. Self amusement is what carries a pua. If you aren't having fun, if your not negging her, then your doing something wrong. Getting laid SHOULD NOT be the only thing on your mind on a night out. A night out, your only thing that should having fun, getting laid is capping off a great night with a great ending. When your watching a good movie, do you skip the entire movie and just fast forward to the climax? NO, you watch the entire thing then enjoy that amazing movie with a great ending.
"Far better is it to dare might things, to win glorious triumph\s, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat"
-Theodore Roosevelt
If you happen to fail the shit test, its NOT a fail, its a reference point. A reference point is something that is learned due to previous attempts. Analyze your full interaction and recall what happened and pin point what worked and what didn't work.
During this whole process, have fun with it. Self amusement is what carries a pua. If you aren't having fun, if your not negging her, then your doing something wrong. Getting laid SHOULD NOT be the only thing on your mind on a night out. A night out, your only thing that should having fun, getting laid is capping off a great night with a great ending. When your watching a good movie, do you skip the entire movie and just fast forward to the climax? NO, you watch the entire thing then enjoy that amazing movie with a great ending.
"Far better is it to dare might things, to win glorious triumph\s, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat"
-Theodore Roosevelt
Friday, August 16, 2013
Back, time to go HAM.
So my previous relationship was a fluke. No need to talk about it. Just moving straight on. But I will tell you how I reacted to the ending of this relationship. I was sitting in mcdonalds basically dancing in my seat, a weight was lifted off my shoulders, and my head automatically turned on the gaming mode switch. With that much said we can move on now. Oh and I got a bit of a head start on the break up, made out with a girl last night...
Being out of the game made a pretty big impact on myself, last night it was pretty hard to approach. Maybe since I was still technically in a relationship so that's what could've been holding me back. But tonight, tonight is the night I go ape shit, nothing is holding me back now.
In order to have a successful night along with future endeavors. Here's a list of some of the things that ill need to exert success.
-Unreactiveness: Whatever the situation that's going on around you does not matter, the only thing that matters is the bubble that's holding you and your target.
-Dominance: Create a mindset of dominance, stick with it and don't doubt it.
-Don't be afraid to fuck up: Practice makes perfect, but don't test the water by dipping your toes in to the pool, dive right in
-Step out of your comfort zone: How boring is it to stay in your comfort zone your entire life. THRIVE in the moment
-Building social momentum: Pick up is just like a sport, you need to warm up before you head into the more strenuous part of the activity. That could mean getting blown out by several sets just to get the night/day into a steady pace of social action.
Being out of the game made a pretty big impact on myself, last night it was pretty hard to approach. Maybe since I was still technically in a relationship so that's what could've been holding me back. But tonight, tonight is the night I go ape shit, nothing is holding me back now.
In order to have a successful night along with future endeavors. Here's a list of some of the things that ill need to exert success.
-Unreactiveness: Whatever the situation that's going on around you does not matter, the only thing that matters is the bubble that's holding you and your target.
-Dominance: Create a mindset of dominance, stick with it and don't doubt it.
-Don't be afraid to fuck up: Practice makes perfect, but don't test the water by dipping your toes in to the pool, dive right in
-Step out of your comfort zone: How boring is it to stay in your comfort zone your entire life. THRIVE in the moment
-Building social momentum: Pick up is just like a sport, you need to warm up before you head into the more strenuous part of the activity. That could mean getting blown out by several sets just to get the night/day into a steady pace of social action.
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